Showing posts with label Out and About - 2014. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Out and About - 2014. Show all posts

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Out and About – Winter 2014-2015

UPDATED: 2/26/15


Regular readers of The Wild Reed will no doubt be familiar with my "Out and About" series, one that I began in April 2007 as a way of documenting my life as an “out” gay Catholic man, seeking to be all “about” the Spirit-inspired work of embodying God’s justice and compassion in the Church and the world. I've continued the series in one form or another every year since – in 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, and now into 2015. So let's get started with the latest installment . . .

Above: With friends Kathleen and Cheryl at the Minnesota Philharmonic Orchestra's 8th Annual Salon and Silent Auction, Saturday, January 31, 2015. As well as showcasing and raising funds for the MPO, this event also served to officially introduce and welcome to the wider community the orchestra's new Music Director, Alexander Platt.



Above: Friends, longtime and new, at the Minnesota Philharmonic Orchestra's Salon and Silent Auction. From left: Rita, Gregg, Paul, Rick, Tressa, and Matt.

The MPO was founded in 1993 by Kevin Ford, a gay man who had a vision of a gay and lesbian orchestra that would build community and fellowship through the performance of classical music. Notes the MPO website:

Although Kevin succumbed to complications from HIV-AIDS in 1995, the organization he created continues to grow and diversify today. The MPO includes players from a variety of backgrounds and orientations who share a commitment to inclusivity, non-discrimination, and to the performance of works by under-represented composers.


My good friend Kathleen (pictured with me in the opening image) is the orchestra's Principal Second Violinist.


Left: With my TRUST Meals on Wheels colleagues Julia and Betsy – December 18, 2014.

I've worked part-time as a Site Coordinator with this south Minneapolis-based 'meals on wheels' program since June 2011.

As I've previously noted, in a lot of the church reform work I've facilitated and engaged in – and, to some degree, am still part of – rarely is positive change something that happens immediately; it's very much future-oriented work. With my work with meal-on-wheels, however, I experience the satisfaction of knowing that every day – here and now – our work is making a very real difference in people's lives. These two very different types of work make for a good balance in my life. And for that I'm very grateful.



Above and right: My home in south Minneapolis. I share this lovely abode with Tim, the best housemate and friend anyone could possibly want.

Throughout this past winter I've enjoyed many quiet and restful evenings in the warm glow of what I call the parlour (above). I light the candles, pour myself a Scotch (or sometimes a brandy), curl up in a blanket on the couch, and enjoy the music of Claude Chalhoub, Moby & Co., Edgar Meyer, Omar Faruk Tekbilek, Bobbie Gentry, Miloš Karadaglić, and/or Kate Bush.



It hasn't all been "quiet time," though. Early in the winter Tim and I hosted a Christmastide/Winter Solstice gathering for a number of our friends. We also celebrated the New Year with a party. Images from both these events can be found here.

More recently, our friends Brian and Kathleen (left) came by for coffee, conversation, and . . .




. . . a winter walk along Minnehaha Creek.


Above: from left: Tim, Kathleen and Brian – Sunday, January 18, 2015.



Right: On Friday, January 16, 2015, I joined with some really wonderful folks to celebrate our friend Ken Master's 91st birthday! Happy Birthday, Ken!


Above: My friend Joan hosted a lovely dinner party on the evening of January 16, 2015. From left: Katie, Joan, Ian, George, Raul, and Karl.

Back in the summer of 2013, Joan and I spent a great weekend in Bayfield, Wisconsin. It's an incredibly beautiful part of the country, as I hope I documented in the many photographs I took while there. Many of these photos can be viewed in the previous Wild Reed post, Days of Summer on the Bayfield Peninsula.



Left: On Sunday, January 11, my friends Liana and Curtis' daughter Amelia turned one! This special occasion was marked by a gathering of family and friends at the home of Amelia's grandparents, my friends John and Noelle.



Right: Amelia's first birthday celebration was made all that more special by the presence of Uncle Phil, visiting all the way from Georgia.


Above: From left: Phil, Curtis, John, Noelle, Carmen, and Mark – January 11, 2015.

My friend Phil was a guest writer at The Wild Reed back in 2012. To read his insightful op-ed on bisexuality, click here.




Left: The birthday girl with her parents, Curtis and Liana. I had the honor of officiating at Liana and Curtis' wedding in the summer of 2013. For images of this happy event, click here.

Also, in the summer of 2012 I spend a wonderful weekend in Chicago with Liana, Curtis, Phil, John, and Noelle. For images, click here.



Right: With Eddie, the Wonder Dog!

For more images of the lovable and very photogenic Eddie, click here, here, here, and here.



Above: Ziggy!

For more images of this handsome cat, click here, here, here, and here.



On the afternoon of Friday, January 30 I hosted a tea party for a number of the wise and inspiring women in my life. It was an event I've been meaning to do for years, as the last tea party I hosted was in my former residence in St. Paul in January 2012. Since then, my collection of tea cups and saucers has been languishing in boxes in the basement of my now not-so-new home in south Minneapolis.

Pictured above from left: Brigid McDonald, CSJ; Marguerite Corcoran, CSJ; Rita McDonald, CSJ; Theresa O'Brien, CSJ; Paula Ruddy; Rita Quigley; Florence Steichen, CSJ; and Kate McDonald, CSJ.

Back in 2007, Paula Ruddy, myself, and a number of other local Catholics launched The Progressive Catholic Voice online forum. It's still going strong!

Then in 2009 we worked with others to form the Catholic Coalition for Church Reform (CCCR). We both still serve on the board of this organization and have, over the years, planned and organized many initiatives and events together. Recently, Paula and two other representatives from CCCR and the Council of the Baptized met with Archbishop John C. Nienstedt. To read Paula's account of this meeting, click here.



Above: My friend Kathleen Olsen with our mutual friends Brigid McDonald, CSJ, Marguerite Corcoran, CSJ; and Rita McDonald, CSJ.


Left: With Rita and Kate McDonald – January 30, 2015.

It won't surprise you to know that many of the "wise and inspiring" women who gathered at my home on January 30 are members of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet – St. Paul Province.

My friends Kathleen Olsen and Rita Quigley and I are consociate members of this Catholic order. Marguerite Corcoran and Rita McDonald served as my companions during my two-year consociate candidancy (2006-2007).

To read "A Change of Habits," City Pages' 1999 cover story on Kate, Brigid, Rita and Jane McDonald, ckick here



Above: Friends (from left) Rita, Paula, Florence and Theresa – January 30, 2015.

And yes, I still had my Christmas tree up at the end of January! (For reasons that I explain here.)



Above: On the evening of Saturday, February 7, 2015, I attended with my friends (from left) Mark, Dan and Raul a performance of Contra-Tiempo's show "Full Still Hungry" at the Ordway.

About Contra-Tiempo, the following is noted in the show's program guide:

Contra-Tiempo is a bold multi-lingual Los Angeles-based company dedicated to transforming the world through dance. Its unique urban Latin dance theater brings to life voices not traditionally heard on the concert stage while building community, facilitating dialogue and moving audiences.

The company's work is rooted in salsa and Afro-Cuban and draws from hip-hop, urban and contemporary dance-theater. Contra-Tiempo creates performance work that pushes the boundaries of Latin dance as an expressive cultural and contemporary form, taking Salsa back to its roots as a mode of expression for the struggles of the working class.

Contra-Tiempo includes a rich tapestry of professional dancers and performers of varied styles, many of whom are immigrants or first generation North Americans, and exist within the complex political and personal landscapes addressed in the company's work.


One of the most intriguing aspects of the performance was its various portrayals of Carmen Miranda. Notes a review on the Ordway website:

Each of the three parts featured a version of Carmen Miranda the Portuguese-Brazilian singer/actress of the 1930s and 40s who became a stereotype of Latin American culture in American movies. In the first part she was “Full Carmen” wearing her signature fruit headdress and representing the over-the-top culture that eventually consumed her. In “Still” she was “Carmen Belebi,” still grounded and still rooted in the past and looking back to the way things used to be.

In “Hungry” there were two Carmens. The original Carmen now wore a headdress made of trash which symbolized the negative effects of consumption. She was confronted by the Hungry Carmen, a woman wearing simple clothing and a head scarf. The two mirrored each other and then partnered in a competitive duet. In a dramatic climax the Consumption Carmen overcame the Hungry Carmen and took her position on a high pedestal of chairs while the dead Hungry Carmen was carried off the stage and down the aisles.


To read an insightful interview with Ana Maria Alvarez, Artist Director of Contra-Tiempo, click here.



Above: My friend Raul in downtown St. Paul – Saturday, February 7, 2015.

Raul is pictured in Rice Park, which every year is transformed into a veritable winter wonderland thanks to the hundreds of lights strung throughout the park's numerous trees. It's quite the sight.

The Annual Rice Park Holiday Tree Lighting Ceremony actually took place three months ago on Saturday, November 29, 2014.



Above: Breakfast with my friend Pete at Victor's 1959 Cafe in Minneapolis – Thursday, February 12, 2015.



Above: Winter beauty – February 2015.


Left: On the evening of Thursday, February 12, 2015 my friend Julia and I attended the James Sewell Ballet's "Ballet Works Project" at the TEK BOX Theater, one of a number of performance spaces at the Cowles Center for Dance and the Performing Arts in downtown Minneapolis.

It was a great night of contemporary ballet. I particularly appreciated and enjoyed Shohei Iwahama's solo performance "Suspicious Fisherman," choreographed by Jane Weiner. Both Weiner and Iwahama are guest artists from Hope Stone Dance in Houston, Texas.



Above: A stunning image of dancer Shohei Iwahama by Lynn Lane. For Adam Castañeda's 2013 Houston Press profile on Iwahama, click here.


Right: Standing in the foyer of the TEK BOX Theater, which is home to several amazing dance portraits by photographer Erik Saulitis.

Notes Jenny Zhang of MyModernMet.com about Saulitis' work:

Dancers leap in the air, maintain perfect form, and contort their bodies gracefully in these stunning images by Minnesota-based photographer Erik Saulitis. Photographed against a plain, white background, the silhouetted figures stand out in elegant contrast as they strike dynamic poses or run through difficult routines, allowing Saulitis to capture the image at just the right moment.

The dancers' fluid movements appear effortless, despite the physical challenges of executing complicated pirouettes, arabesques, or standing on tip-toe. Whether the subjects flow with rippling cloth, soar through the air with sprays of water, or rely solely on their own bodies to capture the perfect photo, each spectacular shot expresses their joy and passion for the art of dance.


NOTE: For more on dance at the Wild Reed, see:
The Art of Dancing as the Supreme Symbol of the Spiritual Life
The Premise of All Forms of Dance
The Dancer and the Dance
The Soul of a Dancer
The Church and Dance
The Naked Truth . . . in Dance and in Life
Recovering the Queer Artistic Heritage
Gay Men and Modern Dance
The Trouble with the Male Dancer
A Beautiful Collaboration




Above: With the wonderful members of my Tuesday night yoga group – February 17, 2015.



Above: On the afternoon of Saturday, February 21, my dear friend Brigid hosted a bon voyage party for me at Carondelet Village, St. Paul. On Friday, February 27, I leave for a month-long visit to my homeland of Australia.

Pictured from left: Kathleen Rouna; Theresa O'Brien, CSJ; me, Kate McDonald, CSJ; Brigid McDonald, CSJ; Marguerite Corcoran, CSJ; Sue Ann Martinson; Rita McDonald, CSJ; and Mary O'Brien, CSJ.

A beautiful "Prayer for the Traveler" by John O'Donohue was shared by my friend Kathleen Olsen at one point during our gathering. Part of this prayer reads:

A journey can become a sacred thing: make sure, before you go, to take the time to bless your going forth, to free your heart of ballast so that the compass of your soul might direct you toward the territories of the spirit – where you will discover more of your hidden life and the urgencies that deserve to claim you.

May you travel in an awakened way, gathered wisely into your inner ground: that you may not waste the invitations which wait along the way to transform you.

May you travel safely, arrive refreshed, and live your time away to its fullest; return more enriched, and free to balance the gift of days which call you.



Above and left: Celebrating my friend Joey's 19th birthday – February 23, 2015.

Pictured with me above from left: Joey's mother Kathleen, Will, and the birthday boy himself!

In June of 2013, all four of us had a memorable week in the Black Hills of South Dakota. For images and commentary of our adventure, click here.



Above: With my dear friends Ken and Carol Masters – February 24, 2015.





Right: A great photo of my friend Brian – February 22, 2015.




Above: Lunch with friends at one of my favorite resturants, Pizza Lucé in Uptown, Minneapolis – Thursday, February 26, 2015. From left: Me, Bobbi, John, Brian, and Rick.



Above and below: More scenes of winter beauty.





Above: Hey, let's just call this "Portrait of a Man in His Fiftieth Year"! It was taken on February 12, 2015 . . . And, yes, later this year I turn 50, a fact I'm still doing my best to get my head around!


Winter 2014-2015 Wild Reed posts of note:
At the Mall of America Today, a Necessary Disruption to "Business as Usual"
Vanessa Redgrave: "Almost a Kind of Jungian Actress"
Christmas 2014: Thoughts and Celebrations
20 Years Stateside
CPCSM and the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis (Part 6)
The Gravity of Love
"A Token of Wildness and Intractability"
For 2015, Three "Generous Promises"
Five Takes on Five Dances
The Australian Roots of My Progressive Catholicism
No Altar More Sacred
Interiors
A Beautiful Collaboration

See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Out and About – Autumn 2014
Out and About – Summer 2014
Out and About – Spring 2014
Out and About – Winter 2013-2014
Out and About – Autumn 2013

Images: Michael J. Bayly; except for the two Contra-Tiempo images which are by the Adrienne Arsht Center (Miami-Dade County) and Brandt Brogen of the Richmond Family Magazine, and the image of Shohei Iwahama which is by Lynn Lane of The Houston Press).


Thursday, December 25, 2014

Christmas 2014: Thoughts and Celebrations


It's Christmas Day here in Minnesota, and although I miss spending this special time of year with my family and friends in Australia, I feel very fortunate to have many wonderful friends here in the U.S. with whom I'm able to celebrate all the Christmas season signifies.

Above: Lisa, Brent, me, Joan, George, and Barb – December 19, 2014.



Above: At far left with (from left) Ian, George, Kimaria, Joan, Tykia, and Sadie – December 24, 2014.


I share this evening a few images of some of the celebrations I've been part of, starting with my Winter Solstice/Christmas party on December 19 and continuing throughout today (and updated with images from New Year's Eve!). These images are accompanied by some of my favorite reflections on Christmas – its meaning and significance. I also take this opportunity to wish all my readers a very happy Christmas and all the best for 2015.



Christmas can help us readjust, help us see the Divine more transparently in life, in places where we would least expect. A barn, for example, a baby. The Incarnation we celebrate at Christmas is a call, our belief in it a commitment, to seek awareness of the Divine free of the impediments of culture, class or even catechism. That process calls for a degree of openness most of us rarely embrace or even know as possible. Yet I have a feeling the Divine is so imminent, so within the essence of things, that it is only a matter of learned blindness that keeps us from seeing. It is not something natural to us to be so dense. We can do better. We can break through.

Angie O'Gorman
Excerpted from "The Divine is Greater Than Our Dogmas"
National Catholic Reporter
December 23, 2011



The greatest mystery of religion is the incarnation, the divine and the spiritual taking human and worldly form. In the early history of Christianity, several heresies arose on this point, and they are understandable. It is still difficult to appreciate how the absolutely spiritual is revealed in the absolutely ordinary and material. Our natural tendency is to seek spirituality in the thin air of abstraction rather than in the concrete life around us.

p. 140



The mystery [we celebrate] is that the material and the spiritual coexist. It’s the mystery of the Incarnation. Once we restore the idea that the Incarnation means God truly loves creation then we restore the sacred dimension to nature. We bring the plants and animals and all of nature in with us. They are windows into the endless creativity, fruitfulness and joy of God. We assert that we believe in the sweep of history, humanity and all of creation that Christ includes.

Incarnation is already redemption. Bethlehem was more important than Calvary. It is good to be human. The Earth is good. God has revealed that God has always been here. [Such thinking] will increasingly become mainline spirituality as we become more comfortable with an expanded view of the mystery of Incarnation in the cosmos. If we Christians had taken this mystery seriously, we would never have raped the planet like we do, never have developed such an inadequate theology about sexuality.




The incarnation is the irruption of God into human history: an incarnation into littleness and service in the midst of overbearing power exercised by the mighty of this world; an irruption that smells of the stable.

The Son of God was born into a little people, a nation of little importance by comparison with the powers of the time.

He took flesh among the poor in a marginal area—namely, Galilee; he lived with the poor and emerged from among them to inaugurate a kingdom of love and justice.

That is why many have trouble recognizing him.




Long before the Protestant Reformers insisted that men alone had the God-given authority to preach from pulpits, God’s Word was articulated in life and limb from Mary’s womb. Long before the Catholic Church argued that women were not fit for priesthood because they couldn’t adequately represent Christ at the altar – where Christ’s body is made real and offered – Jesus’ body came to life and entered the world through Mary. John’s Gospel goes out of its way to place her at the Cross, when Jesus’ male disciples have fled. Long before my own church, The Anglican Communion, debated women’s potential to serve as bishops (lit. “overseers” in Greek), God subjected himself in body and soul to the care, protection and oversight of a woman.

God did not take up flesh and enter our world in order to maintain the status quo. He was turning human society – run by men drunk on their own entitlement and power – upside down. Before this good news leaps from any man’s lips, Jesus leaps in Mary’s womb when she visits her cousin Elizabeth. If preaching is one human proclaiming that good news to another, then Mary becomes Christianity’s first preacher in that encounter. And what a sermon!

– Rev. Jude Harmon
Excerpted from "Yes, Mary Did Know. But Do We?"
Patheos
December 22, 2014



The body is like Mary and each of us has a Jesus inside.
Who is not in labor, holy labor?
Every creature is.

See the value of true art
when the earth or a soul
is in the mood to create beauty,
for the witness might then for a moment know
beyond any doubt, God is really there within,
so innocently drawing life from us
with Her umbilical universe,
though also needing to be born,
yes God also needs to be born,
birth from a hand's loving touch,
birth from a song breathing life into this world.

The body is like Mary,
and each of us,
each of us, has a Christ within.

Daniel Ladinsky
Excerpted from his poem "The Body is Like Mary"





On the evening of Friday, December 19, my good friend and housemate Tim and I hosted a Winter Solstice/Christmas party.


Pictured above from left: Steve, Lisa & Brent, Margie, and Julia.


Right: Greta and Kurt.



Above: From left: Brent, Angela, Julia, Pete, Kyle, Paula, Margie, and Steve.



Above: Barb, Greta, Julia, Kurt, Paula, and Lisa.



Above: Brent, Joan, and George.




Left: At right with Margie and Steve.




Above: Angela, Tim, Kurt, and Paula.



On the morning of Saturday, December 20, Tim and I hosted a brunch for our friends Kathleen, Rick, and Brian.

Pictured above from left: Brian, Tim, Rick, and Kathleen.



Above: Rick!



Above: Tim, me, Brian, and Kathleen.



On the evening of Tuesday, December 23, my good friends John and Noelle (left) invited me to be part of their family's annual Christmas tree decorating ritual.

Pictured above from left: Curtis, Alicia, Scott, Liana, Eddie, John, and Noelle.





On December 24 I attended with friends a lovely Christmas Eve lunch hosted by my dear friends Ken and Carol.

Pictured above from left: Sue Ann, Tom, Kathleen, Carol, and Ken.



On the evening of December 24 my friend Joan hosted a wonderful Christmas Eve dinner.

Pictured above from left: Ian (with Sadie), George, Joan, Tykia, and Kimaria.



Above: Friends (from left) Tykia, Kimaria, George, Ian, and Joan – December 24, 2014.



Right: Kimaria, holding the pavlova which she helped decorate and that Joan made for dessert! It was delicious . . . and a beautiful gesture on Joan's part; she wanted to give me a little bit of my homeland at Christmas.




Christmas dinner at the always welcoming home of my friends John and Noelle.

Pictured above from left:Curtis, Liana (holding Amelia), Jackie, Ben, Noelle, John, Alicia, and Scott. Unfortunately, my friend Phil (John and Noelle's son) was not able to be home for Christmas. However, the good news is that he will be back in Minnesota for a visit in January.



Above: A lovely photo of my friends Curtis and Liana and their beautiful little daughter Amelia. In the summer of 2013 I had the honor of officiating at Liana and Curtis' wedding.



Above: Another lovely portrait shot! This one of John and Noelle's second daughter Alicia with her boyfriend Scott. That's Gordy with them!



Above: With my friend Jackie – Christmas Day 2014.



UPDATE: On New Year's Eve I had some friends over to help ring in 2015! Pictured above are Raul and Joan.



Above: Amy and Angela – December 31, 2014.



Above: D.J. Tim!

Michael: Hey, Mr. D.J., do you have any of that Bobbie Gentry swamp rock?

D.J Tim: Look, buddy, it's New Year's Eve 2014, not 1967!




Above: With friends Joan and George.


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Christmastide Approaches
The Christmas Tree as Icon, Inviting Us to Contemplate the "One Holy Circle" of Both Dark and Light
Quote of the Day – December 1, 2014
Something to Cherish (2012)
A Christmas Message of Hope . . . from Uganda (2011)
Quote of the Day – December 26, 2010
Christmas in Australia (2010)
John Dear on Celebrating the Birth of the Nonviolent Jesus
A Bush Christmas (2009)
A Story of Searching and Discovery
The Christmas Truce of 1914
Clarity and Hope: A Christmas Reflection (2007)
An Australian Christmas (2006)
A Christmas Reflection by James Carroll

Recommended Off-site Links:
Merry Iconoclastic Christmas – William Rivers Pitt (Truthout, December 25, 2014).
Jewish Angels and Roman Gods: The Ancient Mythological Origins of Christmas – Valerie Tarico (AlterNet via Salon, December 12, 2014).
Pulling the Princes from Their Thrones – Mike Lux (The Huffington Post, December 24, 2014).
An Unexpected Revolution – Elizabeth Stoker-Bruenig (Democratic Socialists of America, December 24, 2014).